A particular bow that has caught my eye might be the perfect bow..... but how would you know unless you married it. What if the honey moon is not what you had hoped for? I am getting "cold feet". What is perfect for me may not be perfect for another, and visa versa. Example, I have been "dating" a new bow the last couple of weeks. The bowyer sent me two risers and one set of limbs to try. One riser shoots great with the medium grip. The other, a low, I shoot all over the place. What if I ordered a new bow, invested the money, waited for it to arrive, and although it is a great bow... I just don't shoot it as well as with the others? It's a big gamble. I had rather not start a bow collection, buying and trying. I know that the demo med riser bow sent to me has shown that this particular bowyer's bows, built to my likened, would be more than satisfactory. So, do I go the safe route, since I would know exactly what I'm getting, already determined exact grip, limb, riser, etc..... or opt for the unknown of the latest and greatest, taking the chance that I may not like the limb pull, the grip size, etc? Opinions